Let your hair down (literally!)

Gone are the days of over-sprayed updos and tacky ringlets (THANK GOD!)  Your wedding day is supposed to be about how beautiful you look and the wrong hair can totally distract from that.  And with wedding gowns getting more and more gorgeous and elaborate every year, why not let keep your hair relaxed and simple?  I have taken a cue from the red carpet and found some B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L hairstyles that will make you look more like yourself and less like you belong in an ’80′s wedding album.

Messy Bun

Your hubby fell in love with you for you and he’ll love it if he sees you walking down the aisle towards him looking like yourself.  A messy bun is elegant, yet still simple and enables you to show off the rest of your incredible ensemble.

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Loose messy, beachy waves

As goes with the messy bun, long waves shows off the bride’s beauty without being overkill.  It is also PERFECT for summer weddings and has the most relaxed look.  You really can’t go wrong.

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Little Touches

Another great thing about messy and casual styles is that you can throw some flowers or sparkle in your hair and it will look totally chic and natural.  Sidenote– I am LOVING simple white flowers incorporated into bridal hair this season!

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High Bun

I am SUCH a fan of this style.  I think it is so chic and stylish, without being too tight.  It shows off the brides face in the best way possible and allows for a gorgeous veil!

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High End Escorts

No, I’m not talking about glorified hookers just trying to pay for college. I’m talking about one of the key elements to your wedding…the escort card table!

Back in da day (I assume…I’m not old enough to know) escort card tables were boring and blah. Thank God we live in the age of Martha Stewart, Chartha Stewart (yours truly…a moniker bestowed upon me by one of my dear friends), and Pinterest. The inspiration is everywhere, and brides today know that an escort card table is one of the first things your guests see before entering the reception area….so it better be fancy! This is a place you can go nuts with creativity…and it’s not too much work to do so!

Some of my favorites:

This is one that I worked with Janet Flowers Wedding & Event Design on for my clients Courtney and Robb. You can see more of their fab wedding here I love how sophisticated this design was….the flowers were so lush and so chic!

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I love how elegant this one is…mixing the rough element of the wood with the bling of the crystals…so glam!

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I am all about the drama and this definitely brings it! Forego the table…just have a tree! Guests names hang from the branches, which has a stunning effect. Drama is right….just wait until guests are crowding around searching for their names…great idea in theory, but a logistical nightmare!

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I love love love the look of a round escort card table…and love even more that it helps with crowd control as it disperses  people around the table as opposed to all crowding together at a rectangular display. The petals in between rows of cards make this look so stunning!

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I am NOT a fan of lollipop arrangements (those huge tall flower arrangements that have a big bouffant of flowers on top of a skinny vase), however I actually love the one in this escort table design. I think it works so well because it’s outside and not in a stuffy hotel ballroom…and the other arrangements with it make it look fresh and modern, not boring and overdone.

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Obvi I love this. Candlelight, elegant white flowers, clean and simple…you just can’t go wrong!

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This pretty vintage inspired table design is giving me LIFE! Love the assorted lace ribbons to give it a true vintage look…so much better than using the same ribbon for every row.

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Yes, Yes, YESSSS! A simple bed of hydrangea holds these simply pretty escort cards….perfection! Sometimes simple makes the biggest impact!

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I love this one done with carnations too!

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This is the most creative idea EVER! Perfect for the bride with a kitschy, casual wedding…name each table after one of the sodas, then put guests names on the soda bottle…how fun!

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I just TOLD YOU how succulents were a big wedding trend…how fab is this? The potted succulents act as both escort cards and favors..obviously this would work with any flower/plant

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These vintage key escort cards are just so sweet…perfect for a vintage inspired or garden wedding!

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LOVE these boxes of matches for escort cards….perfect if you’re doing a sparkler sendoff!

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Or, you could always go the other direction and do a candle escort…the cuff around the bottom of the candle has the name and table number….love this!

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And last but most creative…escort drinks! Have waiters with trays greeting your guests…each glass has a band around the top with the guest name and table number…genius!

No matter what you decide to do for your escort card table setup, remember the most important thing:

STAY ORGANIZED! I could give you PLENTY of nightmare stories where brides were not organized in their numbering, alphabetizing, or seating charts. Follow these tips to make sure you don’t end up with a wedding day DISASTER:

1. Have all the escort cards in alphabetical order so that your wedding planner can set them up easily. With all the things that happen during an event set up, this is one thing that can be done quickly and efficiently and without any extra effort as long as it is organized from the beginning. Check and double check!

2. Make sure that your seating chart is correct! It’s important to triple check this. It can get hectic as the wedding day nears, with last minute responses or declines…make sure that your table numbers, seats at each table, and escort cards correspond with each other. If you end up with too many people assigned to one table, it can be fixed. Your caterer and wedding planner should always make sure there are extra place settings/chairs on hand for a situation like this, but then someone ends up feeling awkward and out of place…you don’t want your guests to feel that way! Another reason people who do not RSVP to weddings are the RUDEST people ever.

3. Make sure you sit people together who want to be together. Don’t separate families or close friends! Also…if you have people that hate each other attending…do yourself a favor and seat them on opposite sides of the room. No one wants a Theresa Giudice table flip at their wedding!

4. If you are doing table names instead of numbers, be sure to include a key! Your wedding planner and caterer will need this during set up, as their floor plan will be numbered, not labeled.

Wedding Inspiration: Hippie Glam

I saw this GORGEOUS bride on Pinterest, courtesy of Grace Ormonde Wedding Style Blog (If you aren’t familiar with this blog….you need to be. NOW.)

My friend/former roommate Eduarda got engaged 2 weeks ago to the most amazing man…the second I met him I just *knew* that they were soul mates and would be spending the rest of their lives together. They are such a fabulous couple and I love them to death. When I saw this picture of this bride, I instantly thought of Ed, and as usual, I started getting inspired and planning a wedding around this dress…because this dress, and this look, is one that is so fabulous that the *entire* wedding must be designed around it.

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I picture something clean and natural, pops of bright colors, a touch of glam, and a little Moroccan inspired.

How perfect is this altar for the ceremony? Except I would  swap out the bling chandeliers for moroccan lanterns, and tone down the flowers by about a third.

THESE moroccan lanterns would be PERFECT for the ceremony!

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This parachute ceiling NEEDS to happen. I have been obsessing over this picture for months now, and this ceiling does that dress justice…if your venue is indoors it would be perfect…or you can just do a Sperry tent with lighting for an outdoor reception.

I’m kind of loving this boho-glam paisley dress for bridesmaids!

And if subtle is more your style…this gauzy, airy dress is bridesmaid perfection!

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Love this lounge area! Again, swap out the chandeliers for moroccan lanterns

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Also add moroccan poufs to the lounge area…would be so glam in gold!

LOVE this sperry tent for the reception!

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Love this linen! This would be so glam…and love the orange tones of the flowers, however I’m not crazy about those centerpieces for this imagined wedding :)

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I love this cake however for this particular wedding I would like to see metallic gold in there, and some warm peach/coral…and I think the middle tier would be fab with metallic gold chevron….like the middle tier on the cake below!

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LOOOOOVE this cake too!

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I love dahlias….I think using them in modern, assorted centerpieces for this wedding would be fab!

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Love these single blooms in moroccan inspired containers…these would be fab interspersed with other groupings of flowers on the tables

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OH YES pink and orange together…love it! (not these specific arrangements-just the colors )

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LOOOOOVE these vases! would be great worked into table decor, escort card table, or cocktail hour

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I feel like an elephant is integral to this wedding design. Would be the PERFECT finishing touch. Funny thing is I thought of that…and then remembered how much Eduarda loves elephants!

I could honestly go on forever with the ideas this dress has inspired….but I won’t! What other style of wedding does this dress inspire?

 

Sumptuous Succulents

Succulents are the newest trend to hit the wedding industry. *What* are succulents, you ask? They are a water retaining plant-meaning they store water in their leaves, stems, and roots (makes sense-”succulent” means juicy). Cacti are succulent plants, but not all succulents are cacti. OK, enough of the flora lesson. Let’s move onto succulent wedding inspiration!

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branches, succulents, hydrangea…so gorgeous for a natural, rustic inspired wedding

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love this mix of vintage and modern touches!

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OH i love mercury glass, fluffy flowers, and succulents together!

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great use of a lantern!

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I’m loving this eclectic mix…and the wood…fab!

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so so pretty

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a bouquet of nothing but succulents! how unique!

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I love love love this bouquet!

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Perfect idea for an escort card and favor in one!

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succulent invitations…just gorgeous

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this cake…simple, pretty, perfect

Something Blue

Dear Brides Everywhere:

STOP IT with the cobalt blue shoes. You are not original, and you are definitely not Carrie Bradshaw. This is so overdone it hurts. I love the tradition of something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue….but let’s please try something NEW for that something blue!

Really want something original? Try a blue petticoat or layer of tulle beneath your wedding dress.

Also loooove this blue ruffle:

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A popular option is to have your wedding date, or new monogram, sewn into your dress with blue thread. Popular, but not overdone and painful…because people don’t actually see this

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OK if you MUST do a blue shoe…please, a different shade? Stop it cobalt.

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Why not a fabulous blue ride?

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Why not paint your toes blue? Love this Essie shade…it’s even called borrowed blue!

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Love this pretty lace garter with a delicate blue ribbon

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Something blue lingerie? How gorgeous are these? LOVE them!

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LOVE a bouquet tied with blue!

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These simple blue studes are so elegant

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